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Thomas Contract

B.U.L.L.Y is an organization that was founded due to a tragic event.  A family in the Anoka County community lost their 12 year-old son as a result of being bullied.  In light of this tragic loss of Thomas Trosvik we strive to raise awareness and prevent bullying.  Our ultimate goal is to build understanding, love, and learning for youth by empowering them to become Bully-Proof.

What is Bullying?

Bullying is beyond teasing.  Bullying includes one or more persons intentionally trying to harm someone who is weaker than them and certainly more vulnerable.  Bullying includes but is not limited to direct attacks such as hitting, threatening or intimidating, maliciously teasing and taunting, name-calling, making sexual remarks, and stealing or damaging belongings.  More subtle forms of bullying include, but also not limited to indirect attacks such as spreading rumors, and encouraging others to reject or exclude someone. Bullying typically begins in the elementary schools and proceeds into middle school and hopefully/typically tapers off as kids get into high school.

 

Effects of Bullying:

bulletA teenager who is bullied will often feel tense, anxious and afraid. 
bulletKids who are bullied and those that are bullies are more likely to suffer from depression, anxiety and other psychological implications.  (Sometimes, this even leads to suicide.  The earliest reported incident of suicide because of bullying occurred in 1967).
bulletSleeplessness, nightmares, tics or nervous habits
bulletPoor appetite, stomach problems
bulletAcademic problems, fear of going to school
bulletLoneliness, loss of self-esteem, insecurities, humiliation, avoidance of activities

Contract:

I______________________, promise not to bully others and agree to report bullying to an adult if I see someone being bullied.

I______________________, parent of _________________, agree to support and encourage my child to uphold the promise of this contract signed on this date____________.

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                                                                                    Signature of Student

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                                                                                    Signature of Parent

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Signature of B.U.L.L.Y representative

 

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v     Report BULLYING to an adult or call B.U.L.L.Y at 763-438-7859                                               Date